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MISSION STATEMENT First Parish Congregational Church, United Church of Christ, is a community of faith built upon a firm foundation of worship, prayer and education. In affirming diversity, we are dedicated to welcoming all people who seek the Word of God, Christian fellowship and service to others. In partnership with Christ and led by the Holy Spirit, we reach out to the ever-widening community through active and loving ministry. |
Rev. Alice M.C. Ling, Senior Pastor
Rev. Lucy M. Alexander, Associate Pastor
Sunday, September 4th Worship starts at 9:00 a.m.
Fall Worship Schedule starts September 11th at 10:00 a.m.
Office Hours: M – F 8:30 to 5:00 pm
Tel: 603-434-0628 Fax: 603-434-3001 Web: www.fpc-ucc.org
FIRST PARISH CONGREGATIONAL CHURCH, UNITED CHURCH OF CHRIST
47 EAST DERRY ROAD, P.O. BOX 114
EAST DERRY, NEW HAMPSHIRE 03041
603-434-0628 ~ www.fpc-ucc.org
September 2005 Newsletter
My friends, there are several references scattered throughout this newsletter that speak to a special meeting of the congregation on October 2. Because I don’t see that as a static moment in time but as an integral moment in our ongoing life together as a congregation, I want to offer a few thoughts and reflections. And encourage each of us to engage one another openly, prayerfully and respectfully – before and after October 2, as well as that day.
Last fall, the Diaconate, Lucy and I opened a conversation with the congregation about the question of whether or not the pastors of this church should preside at blessing ceremonies of same sex couples at First Parish Church. Since then, there has been a great deal of conversation in a multitude of settings, formal and informal, to discuss this question. This spring, the Diaconate shared with you their decision to support us in making these services available to couples who may come to us seeking the blessing of the church upon their covenanted relationship. This decision was greeted by a diversity of responses: enthusiastic support and encouragement, surprise that the Diaconate would make the decision rather than take it to the congregation as a recommendation, and opposition and disapproval. At the beginning of the summer, a petition was received, signed by 22 people, calling for a vote of the congregation about this matter. It is my understanding that the petition was signed by people who disagree with the decision, as well as by people who support the decision but not the Diaconate’s role in making it; these people feel the decision should have been made by the congregation as a whole. And so the conversation continues, and will for many months, changed but not ended by the outcome of the meeting on October 2.
Throughout this process, I have expressed my position on the question, and I really do not want to speak to that again here. What I do want to speak about, and what I feel passionately about, is the nature of the way in which we go about considering this question, and the ongoing health and strength of our congregation. I believe that that health and strength will be at least as affected by the ways in which we make the decision, as by what the particular decision is. One of the things that makes me most uncomfortable at the moment is the suspicion that most of us are talking primarily with people who think like us. That’s natural and most comfortable, but I don’t think it’s most productive or faithful. We need to talk as candidly, constructively, truthfully and lovingly with one another as possible. We need to listen to one another as openly as possible, so that we might understand the hopes and fears that stand at the heart of and behind the feelings in this discussion. We need to try and not put one another in boxes or affix labels – they are rarely accurate, and even less often constructive.
As the Diaconate processed the information it received, and debated what steps they would take, they talked with each other and us as their two pastors for long hours. I did not always agree with individuals within that circle, nor did I always agree with the board as a whole. But I always felt heard and respected, and I can’t tell you how much I value that gift. I pray that all of us will find a way to extend it to one another in the coming weeks.
One of the questions that has surfaced in the midst of this conversation is whether someone in particular is driving it with a personal agenda. I do not believe that to be the case. One of the most specific questions I have heard is the role of the United Church of Christ and the New Hampshire Conference in this decision. Are they pressing us to take this stand? Absolutely not. Yes, nationally and within the state, elected delegates at a variety of meetings have adopted positions that affirm same gender relationships, and their place within the church and society. But these bodies do not have authority over us, and recognize and affirm that each individual and congregation will decide for themselves what our beliefs, policies and practices are going to be. Yes, personally, I have a long history with the United Church of Christ, but I have never been a puppet for their pronouncements, nor have I been asked to be.
I also want to make it clear that I am not personally driving this conversation. I have always believed that conversations of this magnitude must grow from within the congregation and not be imposed by a pastor. And as I have tried to say in this message, I care at least as deeply about the ways in which we deliberate together as I care about the particular decisions we make.
I care passionately about the health and wholeness of this congregation. Over the years, I have often been impressed with our ability to do the hard work that needs to be done to achieve a goal. We are one of the most loving, faithful, committed and caring groups of people I have ever had the privilege to be associated with. This is not a fragile congregation. I believe that we have before us an opportunity to use all of the best of our gifts to strengthen our life together, to deepen our faith, to embrace the risks of living in community and truly engage one another in exploring the question before us. God is present among us. The Spirit is at work in our hearts and our worship, our meetings and our private conversations. Let us be open to that Spirit, and to one another, that together we might continue to build the church that God envisions for us in this time and place.
Blessings, my friends. And peace.
Alice M.C. Ling
I am very excited about the upcoming year in Christian Education and I wanted to share some of that excitement with all of you. It’s not that things will look a lot different on the surface than they have in prior years. It’s more that people have worked really hard to put some essential frameworks in place.
As we have worked, the following words have surfaced for me:
“The art of awareness of God, the art of sensing God’s*
Presence in our daily lives cannot be learned off-hand. God’s grace resounds in our lives like a staccato. Only by retaining the seemingly
disconnected notes comes the ability to grasp the theme.”[1]
The work we have been doing, as I see it, has been to help all of us “retain the seemingly disconnected notes.” For me, that is what Christian Education is all about. God’s grace abounds. What we can do is to help each other and our children to recognize and share that grace. As we grow in faith, the connections among those moments of grace become deeper and deeper until we are not only able to grasp but to live the theme.
As a result of last year’s CE retreat, the Board has decided to dedicate two months of the curriculum to special thematic topics. The first month will be in January and the topic will be the 23rd Psalm. The second month will be during Lent. We will focus on the Lord’s Prayer. The Board is hoping that, in this way, children (and we) will not only come to know the whole Bible through the regular lectionary texts but will also become especially familiar with some of the key pillars of the faith. The Board of Christian Education has also drawn up a calendar of events for each Sunday so that everyone will know what the focus scripture text is for the day, when classes are meeting, when family Sundays are coming up, when there will be music time in Currier.
The Youth Ministry Committee has also been actively meeting over the summer. The Committee has been able to draw up a calendar from September to June, involving all those in middle school through high school. Confirmation will meet as usual early Sunday evenings. In addition, a regular high school youth group time has been set for every other Friday evening. The Board has also become aware of the need to support youth and families in the multiple issues they may face. Part of this initiative will be a Crisis Prevention evening in October.
The art of sensing God’s presence, while available to each and every one of us, is, at the same time, not something we learn off-hand. Paradoxical, maybe, but true. May education be an important part of all of our spiritual disciplines.
Yours in faith, Pastor Lucy
[1]Abraham Joshua Heschel, Man is Not Alone: A Philosophy of Religion, 88.
SEPTEMBER WORSHIP SCHEDULE
SUNDAY SERVICE HOURS
9:00 am September 4, 2005
10:00 am September 11th, 18th and 25th
September 4, 2005
Sixteenth Sunday after Pentecost
Exod. 12:1-14
Ps. 149
Rom. 13:8-14
Matt. 18:15-20
September 11, 2005
Seventeenth Sunday after Pentecost
Exod. 14:19-31
Ps. 114
Rom. 14:1-12
Matt. 18:21-35
September 18, 2005
Eighteenth Sunday after Pentecost
Exod. 16:2-15
Ps. 105:1-6, 37-45
Phil. 1:21-30
Matt. 20:1-16
September 25, 2005
Nineteenth Sunday after Pentecost
Exod. 17:1-7
Ps. 78:1-4, 12-16
Phil. 2:1-13
Matt. 21:23-32
DEACONS OF THE MONTH
Lee DeBell and Ken Gould
LAY READERS
September 4.................Lee DeBell
September 11............Marcie Zingo
September 18.........Jane Mallinson
September 25........Diana Sweeney
USHERS
September 4...........The Diaconate
September 11......Bill & Lynn Mann
and Kathy Waller
September 18..........Eugene & Sue
Kachuck, Tom &
Shelley Sipe
September 25.........Harry & Sandy
Carter, Dick Hunter &
Mike Schroeder
Every Sunday...........Michael Bryan
Mission Statement
First Parish Congregational Church, UCC, is a community of faith built upon a firm foundation of worship, prayer and education. In affirming diversity, we are dedicated to welcoming all people who seek the Word of God, Christian fellowship and service to others. In partnership with Christ and led by the Holy Spirit, we reach out to the ever-widening community through active and loving ministry.
Nursing Home Friends
Velma Allen
Ida Ceresale
Haven Health Center, Derry
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Connor Michael Trenholm Jason John Czarnosz
Date of Birth: March 29, 2005 and Amy Lynn Thebault
Date of Baptism: July 31, 2005 Married July 30, 2005
Parents: Charlotte Trenholm by Rev. Lucy Alexander
and Jason Tighe

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September 11th at 11:15 am
during Fellowship Hour
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Many Committees Youth Ministry Greeters
Ushers Acolytes Choirs Fellowship Hour
Musicians Fall Activities Best Breakfast
and many other choices!!!
September 8th
The Social Justice Task Force will meet on September 8th at
10:00 a.m. to discuss an agenda for the year.
We will also be preparing for a visit with the Assistant Superintendent of Schools in Derry, Mary Ellen Hanlon.

September 19th
On Monday, September 19th at 10:00 a.m., Dr. Hanlon will be discussing public kindergarten and the steps to establishing public kindergarten in the few districts in New Hampshire where it is not yet an option.
We invite anyone who is interested to join us in the A/B Classroom at 10:00 a.m. on September 8th (Thursday) and/or on September 19th (Monday) for the kindergarten discussion.
ALL ARE WELCOME!
Social Justice Task Force
Selma Gould, Ruth Brooks, Margaret Ives, Elizabeth Ives,
Marion Willis and Marcie Zingo.
MARK YOUR CALENDARS!!!
September 18
CHURCH COOK-OUT AT ODIORNE POINT
Join us for an afternoon of fun in the sun next to the ocean. Food and beverages will be provided, so just bring your lawn chairs and kites, lay back and enjoy some fellowship!
September 11 RALLY DAY
Take this opportunity to showcase your special talents and take on a new challenge for the upcoming year! There’s something for everyone!!
Use what talent you
possess: the woods would be very silent if no birds sang except those that
sang best.
--Henry Van Dyke
Best Breakfast Acolytes
Ushers Coffee Hour
Greeters Harvest Supper
Sugar Plum Fair First Parish Road
Race
Music Church School
Schedule Change – Back to Fall/Winter Hours
Just a reminder that morning Fall service will return to 10 am on September 11, 2005. Also, as mentioned in the July newsletter, due to low attendance, we have decided not to restart the 7:00 pm Sunday service. A sub-committee is currently working on an alternative plan – perhaps an 8:00 am service. Please share your ideas with Bill, Katherine or Lee – we’d really like to offer a 2nd service that will accommodate many!
Blessing Ceremonies & Petition Response
As most of you know, several members of the congregation signed a petition requesting that the Council vote to place a hold on FPC clergy’s performing Blessing Ceremonies of same sex couples at FPC until after the “special” meeting of the congregation on October 2, 2005. The Diaconate is making an effort to talk with those who are struggling with this issue. We hope that all FPC Members will feel free to ask questions and talk with any member of the Diaconate about this very controversial subject.
See You In September
Bill Burke, Heidi Webster, Jane Mallinson, Katherine Cummings, Lee DeBell, Marcie Zingo, Diana Sweeney, Pat Plouff, Ken Gould and Diane Breeden.

For those of you who have not signed-up yet, the photographer from Olan Mills will be back on
Friday, September 30th, from 3:00 to 9:00
&
Saturday, October 1st, from 10:00 to 5:00
During coffee hour, starting September 4th, you will have the opportunity to sign-up for this last session.
You may also call Lisa Hall at 432-6172 to schedule.
It is important that as many people as possible sign-up
to be in the Church Directory.

It’s a huge help when trying to remember peoples’ names, etc.
We’re
goin’ to Mount Carmel! 
The story of Elijah, Jezebel and the god Baal has come alive these past two months in our summer theater experience. The crew has some awesome sets put together, casting has been completed, and costumes are in the works.
As of September 12th, rehearsal will move to Monday nights in MacGregor Hall, the Music Room and the Sanctuary. Our rehearsal time will shift slightly to accommodate our students – we’ll work from 6:30 – 8:00. The musical is scheduled to be presented on October 30th during worship.
We are still looking for “extra’s” to complete our cast and we invite anyone from 2nd grade on up to join us. We especially welcome adults to be a part of the fun.
So, saddle up your horse and git’ on over to Dry Gulch for the hoedown!!


Rally Sunday
We hope that you had a wonderful summer and are ready for a new year of Church School! Mark your calendars for Rally Sunday on September 11th. This is the day when you will sign up your children for Sunday School during fellowship hour. A schedule of church school events will be available.
Church School Teachers Needed
Rally Sunday will also be an opportunity to see how you can become more involved at FPC. There will sign-up sheets for a variety of activities. Please consider becoming a Church School Teacher---we have openings in several age groups. With enough volunteers, your commitment of time will be minimal, but your contribution will be priceless!
Church School Informational Meeting September 7th
Please note that there will be a very important informational meeting on Wednesday, September 7th at 7:00 for all Church School teachers. Please plan on attending as we have some new and exciting resources to share with you before the Church School year begins.
Vacation Church School a Huge Success
Another big THANK YOU! to all who volunteered and participated in this summer's VCS. It was a huge success! About 50 children participated in this week-long annual event. We could not have done it without the 15 adult volunteers and 12 teens who helped with teaching, crafts, music, games, and snacks. Thanks to the generosity of the participants, over $300.00 were collected in the daily offering. Of this money, $157.54 was sent to Kids Cafe' here in Derry along with two large boxes of school supplies. And the Mission Board will match our donation which amounts to over $300.00 for the Kids Cafe'! Another $157.55 was given to the FPC general fund. Thank you all!
Adult Education Courses Coming
The C.E. Board is looking into offering some Adult Education courses or seminars. If you have a suggestion as to subject matter or would like to lead a seminar, please contact anyone on the C.E. Board.
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Custom Designed T-Shirts Free to First 100 Registrants. Pre-registered names will be printed on the T‑Shirts!! (Provided your entry is received by Sunday, Oct. 16th). T‑Shirts will be available to buy on Race Day.
Awards: Merchandise Awards and Gift Certificates awarded to the Male and Female Overall Winners, along with Age Group Winners and Second and Third Place in the following categories: 12–Under, 13–9, 20–29, 30–39, 40–49, 50–59, 60–69, 70+.
Directions: From 1-93 North and South, take Exit 4 (Derry/Londonderry/Rte. 102). Take Route 102 East towards Derry 2.25 miles to the Derry traffic circle. Take East Derry Road (left of MOBIL station). Go 1 mile up hill. First Parish Church is on your right across from the East Derry Store.
LAST NAME (please print!) FIRST NAME _________________________
ADDRESS TOWN STATE
ZIP CODE AGE ON RACE DAY q MALE q FEMALE
Race category: q 12&Under q 13-19 q 20-29 q 30-39 q 40-49 q 50-59 q 60-69 q 70+
T‑Shirt Size: q Child q Adult
I, THE UNDERSIGNED, AND ANYONE ENTITLED TO ACT ON MY BEHALF, HEREBY ASSUME ALL RISKS OF PARTICIPATION IN THE FIRST PARISH FAMILY FIVE ROAD RACE, AND HEREBY RELEASE THE RACE DIRECTORS, FIRST PARISH CHURCH, AILL RACE SPONSORS, AND ANY OF THEIR REPRESENTATIVES FROM ALL CLAIMS OR LIABILITIES ARISING OUT OF MY PARTICIPATION IN THIS EVENT.
SIGNATURE PARENT/GUARDIAN
Entry Fee: $10.00 Pre‑Race,
$12.00 Race Day Mail
Entry to: FIRST PARISH CHURCH
(check payable to FIRST PARISH CHURCH) P.O.
BOX 114 E.DERRY, N.H. 03041
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In Celebration of our 286th Anniversary Twelfth Annual
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To make this First Parish Family Five road race the best that it can be,
we are giving Merchandise Awards and Gift Certificates to the male and
female overall winners along with age group winners and second and third
place in eight categories.
We solicit your support and the opportunity for us to Network our own group of Sponsor's throughout the members and friends of First Parish Church. We are not looking for your personal donations, but those of local merchants or business owners that you may know who would be interested in donating monetarily, or with a Merchandise Award or Gift Certificate.
A donation of $286.00 or more will put your Sponsor's name on our Custom Designed T‑Shirts, and will be mentioned in all of our advertising promotions.
NAME OF SPONSOR TELEPHONE NUMBER____________________________
SPONSOR ADDRESS TOWN STATE ZIP_______________
DONATION:($286.00 or more will have Sponsor's name printed on all T-Shirts) __________________________________________________
MERCHANDISE AWARD GIFT CERTIFICATE________________________________________
OTHER__________________________________________________________________________________________________________
Please leave these forms in the Offertory
Plate or they can be dropped off or mailed to the Church Office.
603-434-0628 FIRST PARISH CHURCH P.O. BOX
114, EAST DERRY, NH 03041
On Sunday, October 30th, 2005 we will be holding the "12th" Annual First Parish Family Five Road Race. Last year, we raised over $3,000. for the restoration of our great church. We hope that this year will be as much fun!! Please help us out with this Sponsor Form and brainstorm some of your own ideas with the awards, gift certificate's, or other prizes! One such idea has been the "Family Sponsorship Challenge!! Any member or friend that would like their family name showcased on the back of the T‑Shirt can do so with a donation of $286 (Iast year our sponsors donated $285). We thank you for your support!
THE ROAD RACE COMMITTEE
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Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ, It is with a grateful heart full of joy that I thank you for the beautiful shawl you sent to me. When a friend and I started the Shawl Ministry at the Newmarket Community Church, we had no idea how far those seeds would scatter, grow and bloom and return. How true it is – Love is a never ending circle! I grew up in First Parish Church and was married there in June 1959, so I have a special spot in my heart for your church. I am confident that by the grace and mercy of Christ, I will get through this lymphoma and the chemotherapy wrapped in the mantle of love. Many thanks for your love and prayers. Dott (Harding) Nash |
INSTALLATION OF MINISTER
We are invited to join with the Exeter Congregational Church, UCC, at the installation of their Pastor, Rev. Nancy Rockwell on Sunday, September 18th at 4:00 p.m. The service will be followed by a reception. This is an important expression of the covenant we share with others in the Rockingham Association, and with the pastor and people of the Exeter Church. Speak with Alice for more information.
ATTENTION: FAMILIES OF COLLEGE STUDENTS! Please call the church office with the new address, telephone # and e-mail address of your college student. We want to keep in touch! |
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CAREGIVERS SOUGHT
We’re looking for some people who like to listen to and support others, have some time they’re willing to share, and are interested in becoming a spiritual friend to others in our congregation. For a number of years, we’ve had a Caregivers program, through which a few people have been specially trained and then assigned to be a friend and support for others. Currently, only a couple of people are serving in this capacity, and we’d love to start a new round of training in the fall.
Caregivers work with a particular individual or couple who find themselves in a time of need. Some specifics have been homebound persons, visiting with an ill person in order that the primary caregiver can step away from the house for a bit, employment changes, or nursing home visits. It’s a great way to express the care and support of the church as people adjust to a new child, the empty nest, a loss of independence or any number of transitional moments.
We ask people to go through a series of training sessions, and then agree to serve for at least a year. The specifics of what is required changes depending on the assignment, but we might be talking about a visit every week or two. If this intrigues you and you’d like to know more, please speak with Alice Ling.
BOOK DISCUSSION
On Wednesday, September 28 at 7:00 p.m., we’ll meet to discuss The Bookseller of Kabul, by Asne Seierstad.
This is a book through which the award-winning journalist has given readers a first-hand look at Afghani life as few outsiders have seen it. Invited to live with Sultan Khan, a bookseller in Kabul, and his family for months, this account of her experience allows the Khans to speak for themselves, giving us a genuinely gripping and moving portrait of a family, and of a country of great cultural riches and extreme contradictions.
For more than 20 years, Sultan Khan has defied the authorities—whether Communist or Taliban—to supply books to the people of Kabul. He has been arrested, interrogated, and imprisoned, and has watched illiterate Taliban soldiers burn piles of his books in the street. Yet he had persisted in his passion for books, shedding light in one of the world's darkest places.
This is the intimate portrait of a man of principle and of his family—two wives, five children, and many relatives sharing a small four-room house in this war ravaged city. But more than that, it is a rare look at contemporary life under Islam, where even after the Taliban's collapse, the women must submit to arranged marriages, polygamous husbands, and crippling limitations on their ability to travel, learn and communicate with others.